im not an effing stepford wife!..

Why do some men want robbots as companions? To clean them, feed them, but most important keep their mouth shut? In my opinion( and i have lots) that would get a little boring. These men feel if they go out into the world and york for 40 to 45 hours a week us womenfolk need to be their slaves. Ladies i dont mean just maids, oh no. They expect immaculate house, dinner on the table, well behaved chidren, and after all that a sexual goddess.  Thats nice. In my opinion that is not the contract i signed. I can do my best, and i will, but im not perfect.  I am messy. I am laid back. I am usually a sex kitten but at the end of the day trying to be everything else for him has left me exhausted and a little resentful. I didnt chose to be this. He did not marry this. He is trying to turn Carrie Bradshaw into Charlotte York.  So my point question is: "am I in the wrong for not wanting to change who I am? Is it right for them to expect us just to drop all our plans and integredy to be at their becck aand call?  My man works hard, and i understand and appreciate that so much but that is not grounds for demanding a perfect spouse. I do my best and some days im a sucky wife but at least i try. Even though i try im starting to feel like i am just not good enough.